Wesley 'Wes' Guidera
Mar 27, 1990 - Aug 14, 2012
Obituary
Wesley “Wes†Michael Guidera, age 22, of El Dorado Hills, California passed away August 14, 2012 in Sacramento.
Born March 27, 1990, in Sacramento to Jeffery Wayne and Patricia Ann Guidera, he attended Pershing elementary school in Orangevale before moving to Citrus Heights. He attended Churchill Middle School and graduated from Mira Loma High School through the International Baccalaureate Certificate program in 2008. Wes was a student at UC San Diego where he was a senior in Neuroscience and named to the Provost’s Honors List for 2010/2011.
Wes was an ardent basketball fan, and closely followed the Sacramento Kings. He was an avid reader and researcher. He loved Pokémon, Batman, and was known to wear a Power ranger shirt even though he was over 6 feet tall. He enjoyed many late night video game sessions with his friends. He had an extensive music collection, and though he regretted never really learning to play, he had a really cool guitar. He enjoyed baking pies from his own recipes. His section of the family garden consisted of jalapeno, Thai chili, habanero and ghost chilies to complement his adventuresome taste in cuisine. This summer Wesley began practicing Yoga with his father and enjoyed hiking and kayaking in the Sierras with his mother and stepfather Dan Phelps.
Wes volunteered for the American Cancer Society, Multiple Sclerosis Society, Susan G. Komen, and several feline rescue groups. True to his spirit as a cat lover and gentle soul, Wesley brought home several kitties from feline rescue.
Wesley Michael Guidera is survived by his parents: Patricia Guidera and Stepfather Daniel Phelps of El Dorado Hills, CA, Jeffery Guidera and Stepmother Anne Boschert of Sacramento; sister Jennifer Phelps of Los Angeles, brother Christopher Phelps of Santa Cruz; grandparents Wayne and Shirley Guidera of Sacramento; and namesakes Wesley James Beyer and Michael Alan Guidera.
Wesley was preceded in death by of his furry friends Fat Cat and Midnight Skater.
“All who met him were impressed by his humor and gentle soul.â€
A memorial service will be held Friday August 24, 6:00pm at Sierra Hills Memorial Park & East Lawn Mortuary, 5757 Greenback Lane Sacramento, CA 95841, followed by a private reception for family and friends. A graveside service for family will be held at the time of internment.
In lieu of flowers, please consider donating to your local suicide prevention or mental health patient rights support groups.
We want to thank Wesley’s many friends for their support.
Guestbook
Pleaseaccept my sincerest condolences to the entire family. It think of Wes often and would like to send my heartfelt support to all of you. Liora Kian-Gutierrez, Assistant Dean of Student Affairs, University of California, San Diego
My deepest sympathies to the family for your tragic loss.
Sending thoughts of love and support during this very difficult time!!
Shirley and Wayne: I share your sorrow for your grandson Wesley. I know how much Uncle Walter loved and spoke of him too. You are all in my heart and prayers. Love You
Cousin Jeff: I share deep sorrow for your the loss of your son. It is unimaginable to me to know what grief you go through right now. Know that my heart and love are with your entire family, as they are my family too.
Dear Jeff and Ann, There are no right words at a time like this. I’m so sorry for your loss. My heart and prayers are with you. Maria
Dear Shirley & Wayne, So sorry to hear about your loving grandson. Peace and love.
Dearest Jeff, our world has lost a shining star and a loving wonderful man. Our family is suffering with yours for this profound loss. May peace be with you always with memories of him forever etched in your heart.
I am deeply saddened by your loss. My thoughts have frequently turned to you and your family this week.
So sorry for your loss
No words to express what I feel for you. I love you! That’s all I can say right now. I love you!
Our hearts and prayers are with the entire family and friends. Patsy our love is especially with you our distant (in time only) friend. Peace to all!
Pat and family We were in shock when we heard the news. It is never easy when a child passes before the parents. I only wish we would have been able to know him better. What little time we spent with him we enjoyed. It just isn’t easy for me to keep up when we live so far apart. We will be thinking of Wesley, you and family.
Patricia – My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time.
Patricia, I’m so sorry. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
So sorry to hear of the loss of your son, and grandson. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Dan and family, I am deeply sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Anne, please accept mydeepest condolences. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. I am sorry that i won’t be able to make to the services this Friday.
Jeff, I am so sorry to hear about your loss. I cannot imagine what you are going through. Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers.
Jeff, I am so sorry you have to suffer such a profound loss. Any other words could not express my condolences.
Jeff, deepest condolences. You and your family are in my thoughts and Prayers.
Jeff, I am sorry for your loss. Please know that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Sean
Jeff, I am so sorry for your loss. My heart goes out to you and your family. I pray that loving memories of Wesley help you through this difficult time and in the days to come. With my deepest sympathy…Karen
Jeff and Ann, My thoughts and prayers are with you. Deepest condolences, Deb…
Jeff, I truly do not have the words to truly express how I feel but please accept my sincere and heartfelt condolences at this most difficult of times and please pass these feelings to your family.
MY DEEPEST CONDOLDENCES TO THE GUIDERA FAMILY!
Dear Jeff and Anne, I’m so sorry for your loss. I wish I could be there. I’m wishing you and all family and friends peaceful memories of Wesley in the days to come. With love, Andy
Dear Jeff and Anne, We are so sorry for your loss. We heard through Shirley and Wayne what a wonderful boy your Wesley was. You are in our hearts, and he is now in the light and at peace. Gini & Karl Grossenbacher
Jeff, I just received the news from Al. I am so sorry to hear of your loss. What can I do for you? Anything you need, sincerely let me know.
Our sincerest condolences at Wesley’s passing. We’re left so speechless, especially with children the same age. Please let us know if we can be of any assistance in your time of need. You are in our thoughts and prayers … Miguel and Jill
Patricia, words cannot express the loss you have experienced. Sending out my deepest sympathy to you and your family. He will always live on in the hearts of the family and friends whose lives he touched.
Dearest Patricia, There are no words to express how sorry I am for your loss. I send you all my loving thoughts to you and your family in this devastating time.
Dear Friends Jeff and Anne, We remember Wesley and remembered him as such a great young man. He will truly be missed by many and we will pray and be here if you need us. Much love to you both.
I am praying for you that the memories you have of your son will comfort you in this time of loss. The tide recedes But leaves behind Bright shells on the seashore The sun goes down But gentle warmth Still lingers on the land The music stops and yet It lingers on in sweet refrains – For every joy that passes Something beautiful remains
Dearest Patricia, my heart is heavy with the loss of your gentle and beautiful boy. I will hold you and your family in my thoughts for a very long time. I pray for you to feel comforted and loved through this most challenging of times. “Beyond the door there’s peace I’m sure, And I know there’ll be no more tears in heaven.” –Eric Clapton
I am so sorry for your loss. Sending prayers your way.
It is obvious that he had so much to offer and didn’t hesitate to give. I’m so saddened by your loss and do not have words to tell you how much I feel for you. I can tell he was and still is loved very much. May God bless you all and watch over you.
I am so sorry for your loss..
Dan and Patsy, I’m sorry for your loss. This is awful, too much of a shock for words. You are in our thoughts and prayers as you face this tragedy in your lives. Aunt Rosemary and Uncle Jim
patricia, i am so very sorry for the loss of your son. i wish there were retakes.
My heartfelt condolences to you Patricia and your family. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Love and peace from Colorado.
Patricia, you are close to my heart and in my prayers at this moment and will be for some time. I pray for the rest of your family as well and I pray that Wes is settled and at peace from whatever was “chasing” him. I love you girl, and wish I could be there for you! Hugs my dear dear friend!